Don't be a doormat; tell him what you won't tolerate.
Dealing with a partner’s midlife crisis is exhausting and painful. While you can't control his choices, you can change the dynamic of the relationship to make "coming home" a more attractive option. 🛑 What is Happening? Don't be a doormat; tell him what you won't tolerate
I can give you more specific advice on or what to say during your next interaction. 🛑 What is Happening
If he makes mistakes, don't rush in to fix them. 4. Keep the Door Ajar, Not Wide Open 4. Keep the Door Ajar
A partner who is thriving is more attractive than one who is pleading. 3. Stop Being the "Parent" Don't lecture. Avoid pointing out his "reckless" behavior.
Show him your life doesn't revolve around his crisis.
Most midlife crises are temporary phases. By focusing on your own stability and happiness, you become the "anchor" he eventually realizes he needs. If you’d like, tell me: Has he or is he still in the house? Is there a third party involved? How long has this behavior been going on?