: Replace "Why did you forget?" with "What system can we use to make this easier to remember?". Divide chores based on strengths rather than 50/50 splits—if one partner is better at big-picture projects, let them own those while the other handles scheduling.
: Schedule "connection moments" and practice mindfulness to stay present during physical or emotional intimacy. Expert Resources for Further Reading The Couple’s Guide to Thriving with ADHD
: Stop relying on memory. Use shared digital calendars, visual to-do lists, and sticky notes to turn abstract tasks into visible, trackable goals. : Replace "Why did you forget
The Couple’s Guide to Thriving with ADHD: A Roadmap for Lasting Connection visual to-do lists