: Discuss what is "off-limits" and what is encouraged. This builds trust and ensures both partners feel safe and respected.

: Don't assume what she likes. Some pre-operative trans women may feel dysphoric (uncomfortable) about their genitals and may not want them touched or used during sex.

: If you have frequent partners or higher-risk encounters, consider PrEP (Pre-Exposure Prophylaxis) to prevent HIV. If you believe you were exposed, seek PEP (Post-Exposure Prophylaxis) from a clinic within 72 hours.

: Follow her lead on terminology. If you aren't sure, it is okay to ask what words she prefers for her body. 2. Physical Protection & STI Prevention

To reduce the risk of STIs and HIV, consistent use of barriers is essential.

Note : Never use silicone-based lube with silicone toys, as it will damage the material.