Use "The Pause." Wait three seconds before responding to a jab. It shows you are thinking, not reacting. 2. Use the Socratic Method
Instead of making statements (which can be attacked), ask questions (which must be defended). How to Win Every Argument
"I see your point about X, and if we combine that with Y, I think we have a solution." Use "The Pause
People lose arguments because they let the topic drift. If you’re arguing about the dishes, don't let them bring up "that thing you did three years ago." Use the Socratic Method Instead of making statements
A "win" can also be refusing to participate in a circular, bad-faith argument.
"It seems like we’re just repeating ourselves now. Let’s take a break and circle back when there’s new information." 7. The Ultimate Secret: Define the Win