How To Start A Conversation And Make Friends Today

To move past small talk, you have to offer a little bit of yourself (Self-Disclosure).

do you usually try to meet people (gym, work, bars, events)? How To Start A Conversation And Make Friends

"Do you know if there's a power outlet nearby?" People actually feel more connected to you when they do you a small kindness (it's called the Franklin Effect). 2. The "Active Listening" Phase To move past small talk, you have to

Once the conversation starts, your goal is to find "hooks"—topics the other person is excited about. "This line is moving incredibly slow," or "Have

Remark on something you both are experiencing. "This line is moving incredibly slow," or "Have you tried this coffee before? It smells amazing."

Compliments are great, but they can be dead ends. Always pair them with a question. Instead of "I like your shirt," try "That’s a great shirt—where did you find it?"